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The Sanskrit term "dharma" is the essence of what something
or someone is supposed to do or exist according to their true innate
nature. Thus the dharma of the sun is to give light and warmth without
effectively expecting anything in return. Likewise, the tree offers
fruit and shade without any expectations, and animals act out their
dharmic lives according to their nature. Only man has become adharmic
or lacking in dharma, due to his deluded state where the mind and
ego have been permitted an unwarranted authority that has subjugated
our dharmic or spiritual nature. This aspect has also pervaded western
or allopathic medicine where there is plenty of scope for ego to
enjoy power, prestige and of course, profit.
Health is not just an absence of disease. It is the presence of
spiritual, mental and physical well-being and the skill of the dharmic
doctor would not only involve all of these levels of healing but
would also include an awareness of their specific relevance to healing.
Notwithstanding the triumphs of modern allopathic science, it is
a sad but obvious fact that treating disease has become a sickness
industry with many doctors essentially trained to practice what
an American pathologist called N2D2 medicine i.e.
Name of Disease = Name of Drug. The patient is relegated to being
a client and a source of income. As a result, my profession is facing
the embarrassment and indeed shame of now being the leading cause
of death in America and well ahead of heart and cancer diseases.
What can a doctor do in the face of all this commercialisation
of human disease? A human being is not just a collection of body
parts to be fixed or replaced but our concentration on the body
has imposed restrictions that could prevent us from really helping
our patients. Biological tissues receive and transmit vibrations
and these barely understood resonances causing physical distortions
can originate at very subtle mental and even etherial levels. Where
has the art of medicine gone when western doctors, wishing to use
safe, cheaper and effective but unapproved or "unscientific"
therapies, risk professional attack and loss of license from medical
board members with vested interests in other technologies? Furthermore,
our western allopathic scientific medicine has had an embarrassing
habit of changing every 10-20 years, as surgical and medical fashions
change even from country to country. In contrast to these trends,
traditional but unpatentable forms of healing have continued for
centuries or even millennia.
Doctors have a perfect opportunity to do loving service. At a 1993
Cardiology Conference in Puttaparthi, India, the Avatar Sri Sai
Baba addressing the assembled doctors, said "You should be
courteous and well-mannered." However, how often has medicine
just become a business where every "client" is seen across
a desk, briefly questioned for five minutes, given a drug prescription
and then shown the door? How many patients do we actually touch?
How many do we really listen to in the haste to get finished?
How many times has a patient given us a hug? How many times, if
ever, has a small child been lifted up onto our laps to be examined?
Notably, the latter would not have been regarded as unusual just
50 years ago. Would we even be able to continue to practice medicine
if the all-too-convenient supply of petrochemical drugs were to
suddenly stop? Homoeopaths, herbalists, acupuncturists and hands-on
naturopaths would still be able to help and many patients are already
choosing their skills and non-toxic remedies. We do not need double-blind
placebo-controlled studies to find out what works. Sri Sai Baba
also said: "Take time to sit by the patient as you would sit
by your brother. Hold the patient by the hand and look into his
eyes with compassion." What beautiful simple instructions.
Is a little compassion so difficult or so time-consuming? How rarely
is even the essence of these simple but very profound instructions
applied to current western medical practice with the emphasis on
a 5-10 minute consultation, intelligent guesses called differential
diagnoses, and tests to see if there's anything wrong with their
part of the "car-case." Even the British Medical Journal
(Jan 2006) has published a study that confirmed that patients responded
most to doctors who actually smiled!
The actual dying process can also be a time of intense loneliness
and fear especially in the all-too-often impersonal hospital environment.
Sogyal Rinpoche writes in the Tibetan Book on Living and Dying about
a young doctor who had just graduated in London. There were five
deaths on her first day in the ward and nothing had prepared her
for this. She saw an old man lying in bed staring at the wall with
no family or friend to visit him. When she went over to him he asked
her with tears in his eyes, "Do you think God will ever forgive
me for my sins?" She had no idea what to say as her medical
training had left her completely unprepared for this and there was
no chaplain available to help. She just stood there paralysed as
I and probably most of my colleagues would also have been at that
stage in our careers.
This doctor later asked Sogyal what he would have done and he told
her that he would have just sat by the bed, held the old man's hand
whilst letting him talk and giving total compassionate attention.
Sogyal continues by writing that he would say to the man, "Forgiveness
already exists in the nature of God, it is already there. God has
already forgiven you, for God is forgiveness itself. But can you
forgive yourself? That is the question." "Your feeling
of being unforgiven and unforgivable is what makes you suffer but
it only exists in your heart or mind. Haven't you read how in some
near-death experiences a great golden presence of light arrives
that is all-forgiving? And it is often said that it is finally we
who judge ourselves."
Sogyal recommended asking for purification to clear any guilt,
to forgive everyone else in your life and to ask for forgiveness
from anyone you have harmed. Two very good friends met Sogyal in
London some time ago and during his discourse he humorously said,
"People worry about dying. Know that you will all be very successful."
Possibly because a fix it or replace it mentality has pervaded
medical training, patients increasingly seek help from naturopaths
who, at the very least, can take the time to hold the patient's
hand and look into their eyes with compassion. This role is also
taught to chaplains where the achievement of holistic care, not
only involves every patient being treated as a physical, social,
emotional and spiritual being, but also moves beyond psychotherapy
and attentive listening to the language of forgiveness, love and
hope.
However, before attempting to communicate on a spiritual level,
both chaplains and doctors inevitably have to confront their own
spirituality and mortality with questions of, "Who am I? Where
am I going?" or indeed, "Why am I?" Similar questions
are also likely to be raised by the patient questioning why they
have been given cancer, and an ability to discuss them is obviously
a prerequisite to being able to assist them.
As the Rev. Noel Due pointed out, "
as soon as there
is any question, in the course of treatment, of the patient's attitude
to himself or others, towards life and towards God, we have left
the technical sphere for that of morality and metaphysics. The doctor
at that point is no longer engaged in psychotherapy (or palliative
care), but in soul-healing."
Peter, a retired police inspector, survived an all-important 7
months after nearly dying during the first week after I met him.
The local hospice had asked if I would help him through the last
stages of his cancer. We gently embarked on a spiritual journey
during numerous evenings together when I would visit him after work.
His final few days were peaceful and he had a "good" death.
However, a month before that time, he told me something quite remarkable.
He started by telling me that a friend of his had recently dropped
down dead on the golf course and friends had commented on how lucky
he had been. Peter then went on to say that he didn't agree as given
the chance, he would not have changed places as his illness had
enabled him to discover so much about life and death. He no longer
feared death and was even looking forward to seeing what was going
to happen! The doctor thus has an opportunity to be both a guide
and teacher, and indeed, "docere", to teach, is the Latin
derivation of our profession.
Many people and pastors and of course doctors who think that MD
means Minor Deity do not really know who they are. There is the
person we think we are, there's the one other people think we are
and then there's the one we really are, namely pure ongoing spirit
temporarily encased in a vehicle or physical body.
Notably, Cheryl Canfield writes in "Profound Healing,"
"When we see ourselves from the perspective of ongoing spirit,
we have less attachment to the survival of our bodies; paradoxically,
as we get our lives into harmony with universal love, we have more
energy available to heal our bodies. When we embark on this spiritual
journey, however, whether we heal our bodies or make the transition
and let our bodies go, is not what matters. What matters is how
we use the life we are given this very moment."
There is now more than enough robust evidence from the many tens
of thousands of people who have had Near Death Experiences (NDE)
let alone the evidence of past lives from Professors Stevenson,
Weiss, Haraldsson, Banerjee and others following in their footsteps,
to confirm an ongoing consciousness after death and a subsequent
return into an appropriate and chosen body. Indeed, Marty, one of
Professor Ring's NDErs, summed up what he was meant to bring back
and share with the world with: "Loving and caring for others
are the most important things that we can do as human beings on
this earth. An ultimate and loving God does exist and we must search
for truth and deal with each other honestly." Another time
during one of Professor Ring's classes, a student asked Virginia,
a middle-aged mother who had shared her NDE with them, how he himself
could have such a wonderful experience and Virginia replied, "Love
others" (even though we might not actually approve of their
behaviour!).
Having been given this unique chance to serve, we therefore need
to appreciate those patients who, by still believing in us, give
us the opportunity to help both of the indwellers on their journey
and whilst we may be overworked and tired out, a little loving compassion
goes a long way.
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