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What change can we effect? What's the difference
we want to make in the world?
Gandhi said, "In a gentle way you can shake the world."
Here are some things to think about how to do just that.
- Know that all significant
change throughout history has occurred not because of nations,
armies, governments-and certainly not committees. They happened
as a result of the courage and commitment of individuals. People
like Joan of Ark, Albert Einstein, Clara Barton, Abraham Lincoln,
Thomas Edison and Rosa Parks. They might not have done it alone,
but they were, without question, the change makers.
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Believe that you have a unique purpose and
potential in the world. It's not so much something to create
as to be discovered. And it's up to you to discover it. Believe
that you can and will make a difference.
- Recognize that everything
you do, every step you take, every sentence you write, every word
you speak-or DON'T speak-counts. Nothing is trivial. The world
may be big, but there are no small things. Everything matters.
- To be the change you want to see in the world,
you don't have to be loud. You don't have to be eloquent. You
don't have to be elected. You don't even have to be particularly
smart or well educated. You do, however, have to be committed.
- Take personal responsibility. Never think
that "it's not my job". It's a cop-out to say, "What
can I do, I'm only one person." You don't need everyone's
cooperation or anyone's permission to make changes. Remember this
little gem, "If it's to be, it's up to me."
- Don't get caught up in the how of things.
If you're clear on what you want to change and why you want to
change it, the how will come. Many significant things have been
left undone because someone let the problem solving interfere
with the decision-making.
- 7. Don't wait for things to be right in order
to begin. Change is messy. Things will never be just right. Follow
Teddy Roosevelt's timeless advice, "Do what you can, with
what you have, where you are."
- The genesis for change
is awareness. We cannot change what we don't acknowledge. Most
of the time, we aren't aware of what's wrong or what's not working.
We don't see what could be. By becoming more aware, we begin the
process of change.
- Take to heart these
words from Albert Einstein-arguably one of the smartest change
masters who ever lived: "All meaningful and lasting change
starts first in your imagination and then works its way out. Imagination
is more important than knowledge."
- In order for things
to change, YOU have to change. We can't change others; we can
only change ourselves. However, when WE change, it changes everything.
And in doing so, we truly can be the change we want to see in
the world.
Inscribed on the tomb
of an Anglican Bishop in Westminster Abby (1100 A.D.)
"When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits,
I dreamed of changing the world. As I grew older and wiser, I discovered
the world would not change, so I shortened my sights somewhat and
decided to change only my country.
But it, too, seemed immovable.
As I grew into my twilight years, in one last
desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those
closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it.
And now, as I lie on my deathbed, I suddenly
realize: If I had only changed myself first, then by example I
would have changed my family.
From their inspiration and encouragement, I
would then have been able to better my country, and who knows,
I may have even changed the world."
Since this list was inspired by Gandhi's belief,
it seems appropriate to end with another of his quotes: "Consciously
or unconsciously, every one of us does render some service or
other. If we cultivate the habit of doing this service deliberately,
our desire for service will steadily grow stronger and we will
make not only our own happiness, but that of the world at large."
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